A few months ago, when I started looking for help to deal with my break up and maybe even some way to possibly fix things, the first thing I found was a very prevalent book on the Web called “The Magic Of Making Up.” I bought it, priced at a whopping $37, even though the author had no credentials whatsoever, which to his marketing ability I admit he made sound like a excellent thing at first–you know, the dubious appeal of the “regular guy” or “man on the street” kind of wisdom.

What a let down. Priced at nearly a dollar a page, the best thing I got out of the book was its advice not to jump in too quick or appear desperate, which is pretty obvious and pretty much the same advice I’d already gotten from friends. All the hard subjects were avoided. It was a pretty shallow read. There was nothing there to tell me how to really fix what was ill-treat with my relationship, and I wanted to know what went ill-treat so I could make it right. I looked nearly and learned a lot more articles online and books, and a lot of the advice suggested quick fixes and tricks that were at times downright immature and deceitful and clearly weren’t going to have any lasting results. Apparently “get your ex back” is a well loved market that a lot of opportunistic salesmen have gotten into.

Then I found this book and finally it all made sense to me, I followed it through, and it worked for me. What makes this program different from and superior to all the additional “get your ex back” programs out there is that it uses self-empowerment, constructive communication, and personal mental health as the keys to reviving like, as opposed to so-called “magic” formulas and manipulative tricks that will only cause more pain and fail in the long run.

It focuses on changing you, rather than tiresome to change your ex, and raising your own self-esteem to boost your attractive power to win him or her back. But it also educates you about the most fundamental but often forgotten psychological truths about relationships that will not only help you reconcile with your ex and make a more harmonious and enduring relationship, but revolutionize how you deal with all relationships in your life.

In addition, the included workbooks help you question yourself, your partner, and your relationship to pinpoint precisely where the issues are that are getting in the way, and then shows you how to deal with them and how to heal from past negative experiences or “ancient wounds” that are ruining your present relationships. It also deals with many issues, such as faithlessness, that additional programs avoid like the plague.

Now, while all this might sound kind of gray, Dr. Turndorf teaches her method in common sense terms, and emphasizes that we should not wallow in guilt or blame about our problems. Instead, she shows you how to take dependability for yourself, and through the process of reconciliation, make the relationship that will help you be more fulfilled in all areas of your life.

I then learned that Dr. Turndorf is also author of Till Death Do Us Part (Unless I Kill You First): A Step By Step Guide To Resolving Relationship Conflicts and I also bought that book through her Web site AkDrLove.com (also on Amazon here). This book goes even further into what causes fighting and how to turn conflict into a clear force. This book completely changed my understanding of myself and every relationships in my life, including my parents and even my boss.

This is because Dr. Turndorf’s methods are based on thirty years of clinical research and counseling with real couples in her daily practice, which is about getting real results. She’s not some self-appointed expert who is really just a salesman looking to make a buck, but someone who really cares and really knows what she’s talking about.

This book is far more comprehensive, authoritative, and real than anything else out there! Thank you Dr. Turndorf for showing me the way and changing my entire life for the better!

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