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Finally! Understanding!,
It was hard to read her book “The Verbally Abusive Relationship” because I cried my way through it. But as hard as that one was, this one is enlightening. It’s one thing to know that someone is abusive, it’s another thing completely to know why. I really felt sympathy for my husband instead of aversion – and that is a wonderful start. And with “The Agreement” that this new book centers nearly, I was really offered hope. My husband is aware of what he does; he has honestly been working on seeing me in a different light. But it really helps our relationship now that I know in what light he was seeing me.
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|An vital pile for determining if an abusive man can change,
Communication specialist Patricia Evans explores the issue of verbal abuse in heterosexual relationships. She builds on her previous work in The Verbally Abusive Relationship and Controlling Public by posing the question, “Can a verbally abusive man really change?” What is particularly startling about verbal abuse, Evans clarifies, is that in nearly every case the abuser feels that he is the one life attacked. (Rarely, abusers are female, but such cases aren’t discussed in this book.) Getting him to own up to his hurtful behavior is not simple. Motivating him to change is even more hard. Evans supplies tools you can use to determine if your partner is likely to change and a program that can help him do so, if you reflect he can modify his abusive behavior. Evans uses her book as a pulpit to preach against unqualified therapists, verbal abuse in all its forms and the male-dominated society that has made such abuse possible. But, her cause is just, and we recommend this vital pile to anyone who is struggling to survive an abusive relationship and to therapists who are seeking solid information.
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|tiresome to get inside an abuser’s head?,
I felt like this book was tiresome to know what they could be thinking, why they are cruel and controlling and how to talk to them in a way they could possibly know. The authors’ previous books talk more directly to the woman, helping her to know abuse, change her events and give her a tool to confront the abuser (a written agreement). In contrast, this book talks more specifically about the deadly ways that the relationship works- the toxic interactions, the abuser’s ill-treat thinking and unrealistic expectations and how the abuser’s soul was hurt. It’s not an simple book to read- it dragged up a lot of pain and rage relating both to “how could he DO this? and “why would someone do this to him as a child?” But it was helpful on the recovery path.
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